Preheat a small skillet over low heat. Do not get the skillet too hot.
Spread softened butter over one side of each bread. Place 3-4 slices of room temperature Havarti cheese or your cheese of choice. The buttered slices side out.
Cook for 2-3 minutes on each side over low heat or until the cheese is completely melted and the bread is golden.
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Notes
Cook the grilled cheese over low heat for 2-3 minutes on each side.